Hellow!

20110701

communication

Having relationship is not as easy as I've imagine before. If two people are in love, then what's the difficulty of understanding each other?
I'm wrong, a couple still consists of two different individuals each has his/her own traits, own problem, own insensitivity, etc, etc.
When in love, it's easier to understand, but it's not that easy.
One big problem that I face is a very common and essential; communication.
I cannot express my feeling properly. It's not because I lost my temper, it's because I'm way too cool-_- When I'm feeling angry, sad, or disappointed, I lost my energy and I choose to be quiet. I feel I do something wrong because I only hurt myself when doing it. Its real that time wounds the mood, but you cant let someone hurt your feeling again and again, right?

When your bf/gf disappoint you, tell them. Learn to express your feeling in assertive way. I think if he/she loves you back, he will understand.